Victoria is sharing her expertise through podcast interviews, articles & more!

Live Webinar: How to Leave a Narcissist

Live Webinar: How to Leave a Narcissist

Shawn K Howerton
Victoria V. Kirilloff, CDFA®, NCPM®, CDS® 

The webinar was about navigating divorce proceedings when dealing with a narcissistic partner. It discussed building a strong divorce team that understands narcissism, mediation and collaborative divorce processes, financial organization and planning, dealing with emotional trauma, healing from the relationship, and tips for successfully navigating the divorce process while dealing with a narcissist.

Listen to the replay below.

How to Leave a Narcissist
Victoria Kirriloff & Shawn K Howerton



How to Leave a Narcissist
Victoria Kirriloff & Shawn K Howerton

How to leave a narcissist- Shawn and Victoria

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Navigating the Financial Storm of Divorce

Podcast: Relationship Recovery
Host: Jessica Knight

Going through a divorce can be one of life's most challenging experiences, especially when it involves financial manipulation, abuse and high-conflict dynamics. Join us to learn about practical tools & mindset shifts to emerge financially secure and confident, even when going through a divorce.

Getting Financial Clarity

Podcast: New Beginnings - A Marriage & Divorce
Host: Tamar Queen Barbash

In this episode, Victoria shares her story of and how she had to financially untangle their relationship first in order to achieve the freedom she needed.

Domestic Violence Can Happen to Anyone

Podcast: Her Empowered Divorce
Host: Beverly Price

Listen to a story about Victoria's client who tragically lost her life due to an abusive relationship, her own personal experiences, and the valuable lessons she has learned along the way to shed light on the importance of seeking help and support when faced with toxic relationships.

Live workshop:&#160;<br/>What You Need to Know About Divorce

Live workshop: 
What You Need to Know About Divorce

Lisa Zonder, Esq.
Victoria V. Kirilloff, CDFA®, NCPM®, CDS® 
Raina Krell, PhD

On March 15th, 2024 Victoria joined other divorce experts to present a live workshop to provide you with knowledge and tools to yield a smoother, more informed divorce process.

Watch the recording to learn the intricacies of navigating financial matters through the divorce process, discover emotional coping strategies, and receive personalized coaching advice to navigate the complexities of divorce with confidence and clarity.

What You Need to Know about Divorce and Your Money

Podcast: Getting to the Heart
Host: Michèle Heffron

In this episode, Victoria's shares how her decade long partnership had far exceeded its expiration date and how she used the power of financial analysis to untangle their assets and separate peacefully.

Divorce, Money, and Self-Care

Podcast: The Mind-Body Podcast
Host: Maria Angelova

Join Maria and Victoria as they discuss how during major life transitions like divorce, decision fatigue can lead to detrimental choices. As a divorce negotiator, Victoria sheds light on the financial aspects of divorce and emphasizes the importance of taking action.

Replace Divorce Fears with Facts

Podcast: Divorce Doesn't Suck
Host: Wendy Lowy Sloane

In this episode, Victoria shares how she created the first Divorce Impact Analysis—an objective and fact-based report that served as the data points in her property division negotiations. She uses the same strategy now to help divorcing people stay out of court and find financially-reasonable settlements that are fair to both parties. 

Why Ignoring Red Flags is Self Sacrificing Behavior

Podcast: Better Divorce:
Host: Paulette Rigo

Join Victoria and Paulette for this conversation about how ignoring red flags is self sacrificing behavior and an lead to unintended demise. Tune in for a personal story where Victoria shares her own crossroads and what she did when she realized she could not stay in the relationship but did not know how to leave.  

Lives Radio Show & Podcast

Podcast host: Stuart Chittenden

Victoria shares stories of how her father – a Russian American nuclear engineer – found love in rural Nebraska, built several businesses, but suffered an untimely stroke that had Victoria questioning not only her family’s financial planning, but also the science of money and behavioral psychology more broadly. 

The (Br)other Side

Podcast host: Alex Pearson

In this episode, Victoria explains how taking the guess work out of the financial picture when working through a divorce helps achieve win-win outcomes that benefit both partners and preserve not only resources but relationships as well. Tune in to learn more about her story and her process!

Single or Divorced

Podcast host: Theadora Vosse

In this episode Victoria explains that it is possible to have peace at the end of your marriage and during divorce when fears and emotions are replaced with financial facts. She shows us how to keep your family dynamics intact by understanding the true financial impact of your divorce and uncover what you and your family really need to create a win-win solutions for all parties.

Doing Divorce Different

Podcast host: Lesa Koski

Tune in to learn more about how women can be financially and emotionally ahead of the game regarding finances in all aspects of their life, especially during divorce. Victoria also talks about the difference between men and women regarding spending habits, and gives us tips on how to teach our brain the skill of mindful spending. 

The Journey

Podcast host: Van Deeb

Listen to the newest podcast feature where Victoria shares insights into the world of finance & divorce, and shares what makes her passionate about guiding clients through difficult life situations and helping them emerge financially stronger. 

Guest Articles & other Features

Victoria has also been featured in the Disruptors Magazine and her articles and commentaries were published by various publications.

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About Victoria Kirilloff

Victoria partners with high-net-worth families and divorcing couples to preserve their financial resources without burning bridges or paying the expensive cost of prolonged litigation. She’s the founder of Wealth Analytics and Divorce Analytics, which takes a holistic and win-win approach to wealth retention, inheritance navigation and estate administration, and divorce settlements. 

Victoria brings unmatched expertise and perspective backed by her personal background in managing her family business and her work experience at Mutual of Omaha as an insurance professional and at Morgan Stanley as a financial advisor. 

Victoria is also a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) and Nationally Certified Professional in Mediation (NCPM) - which means she operates as a neutral third party who facilitates clear communication and empowers her clients to stay open to creative solutions and a sustainable financial ecosystem that matches their lifestyle based on data.

Topics of Interest

  • How to have an amicable divorce that results in win-win scenarios and preserves resources & relationships
  • The financial pitfalls of divorce and how to avoid them
  • Why choosing the right divorce method is one of the most important steps
  • Understand the four phases of divorce: Emotional, Social, Financial & Legal 
  • Using a Divorce Impact Analysis Report (financial report) to neutralize a high conflict spouse so you can get divorced