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The 6 Most Expensive Words During Property Division in Divorce
Do you know what causes more financial disasters during property division in divorce? In this article, I’ll show you how to avoid making emotional decisions and approach this decision from a place of financial clarity.
Read MoreHe Depleted Their Joint Assets Before Filing for Divorce
A case study on willful dissipation in divorce—and how emotional regulation, forensic financial analysis, and legal strategy work together to protect marital assets.
Read MoreTop 5 Divorce Financial Mistakes to Avoid
If you’re considering divorce, the financial phase can feel like a maze. Here’s how to sidestep the most common divorce mistakes so you can approach the negotiations from a position of clarity and strength.
Read MoreShe Wanted to Keep the Marital Home: The Strategy That Made It Possible
For many people, the house represents safety, stability, and memories. But when finances untangle, reality sets in and the questions start coming in: Should I keep the house in a divorce? Here’s how one client navigated this very dilemma.
Read MoreWhen You Need to Find Missing Money During Divorce—Fast
Unexplained credit card charges? Sudden cash withdrawals? Income that mysteriously disappears? Uncover suspicious money patterns with our forensic-level analysis and build a strategic divorce plan.
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Did Your Spouse Waste Marital Funds? Fight Against Willful Dissipation of Marital Assets
In this article we will tell you about a crucial yet often overlooked divorce topic: the willful dissipation of marital assets. It’s when one spouse deliberately wastes or misuses shared money.
Read MoreWhat to Expect During Divorce: 4 Phases That Shape Your Future
The divorce process often feels disorienting and overwhelming. But in reality, most people move through a combination of four predictable, though often overlapping, phases: emotional, social, financial, and legal. Learn about each of them.
Read MoreKeeping the House After Divorce: Smart Decision or Financial Trap?
Learn how to make housing decisions with your head, not just your heart. Understand the true costs, risks, and smart strategies for keeping the house in divorce.
Read MoreWhen Retirement Dreams Collide with Narcissistic Spouse’s Denial
This case study shares details about a case that dealt with the complex intersection of retirement planning, high-conflict divorce, and the often unrealistic expectations of a narcissistic spouse.
Read MoreWhen Emotions Drive the Divorce: Don't Let Your Controlling Spouse Manipulate You Into a Bad Deal
Divorce is difficult enough without the added stress of navigating relationships marked by controlling spouse behavior. Don't let your controlling spouse manipulate you into a bad deal!
Read MoreDivorcing a Narcissist: Your Guide to a High-Conflict Divorce
Learn how to navigate the challenges of divorcing a narcissist with expert strategies for handling high-conflict situations, protecting your finances, and breaking free from emotional manipulation.
Read MoreHow to Prepare for a Divorce the Right Way (And Save Thousands in Legal Fees)
Learn how to build an effective exit strategy when divorcing a narcissist. Discover actionable steps to protect yourself, navigate high-conflict dynamics, and move toward empowerment and healing.
Read MoreThis Husband Tried (And Failed) to Hide $100,000 During Divorce
One spouse hiding assets in divorce is common. This case study shows how we exposed $100,000 in assets using forensic accounting and secured a fair settlement for our client.
Read MoreConscious Uncoupling: Your Cost-Effective Path to an Amicable Divorce
Discover how conscious uncoupling offers a cost-effective and amicable approach to divorce, focusing on growth, open communication, and preserving relationships.
Read MoreShe Wanted Her Husband Out of the Business. Here's How We Did It.
When a business owner needs to separate from a partner who is also an integral part of the business, things can quickly get complicated. In this case, our client faced a unique challenge: her husband was not only her partner in life...
Read MoreSpousal Support Is About More Than Just The Numbers
Understand the complexities of spousal support calculations from a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®. Explore effective divorce strategies and tools to ensure a fair, data-driven approach to securing your financial future.
Read MoreHow to Protect Your Retirement Savings During Gray Divorce. Get Your Financial Facts Straight
When close to retirement, it's important to ensure your divorce doesn’t endanger your retirement savings. Learn from this gray divorce case we have worked on and get Your financial facts straight.
Read MoreHow I Used Numbers to Escape a Narcissist
Ten years. A decade spent navigating a psychological minefield with the man I refer to as “Voldemort” because even the utterance of his name repulses me. During my time with him, I calculated every word and every action...
Read MoreHow to Protect Your Money: Divorce & Joint Bank Accounts
Divorce brings forth many challenges, among them complex financial considerations. One crucial issue that surfaces is the possibility of a spouse emptying a joint account before divorce is even a topic of discussion. It can be unclear...
Read MoreHow Does Divorce Impact Your Social Security Benefits?
The effects of divorce can ripple through every area of your life, bringing changes that are both difficult and far-reaching. One area that often gets overlooked amidst the turmoil is the impact on your Social Security benefits and...
Read MoreHow Does Divorce Affect Your Insurance Coverage?
Divorce is a difficult and complex process, filled with emotional and legal challenges. Amidst the chaos of untangling your life from your former spouse, it's easy to overlook administrative details such as the status of your insurance...
Read MoreHow To Protect Your Business From Divorce
Divorce can be a stressful and complicated experience for anyone, but it can be particularly painful for business owners. For many entrepreneurs, the thought of losing a company they've worked hard to build and grow can be overwhelming....
Read MoreHow to Protect Your Inheritance From Divorce
Imagine this scenario: You receive a significant inheritance from a relative during your marriage and use the financial windfall to pay off debts, make home improvements, and invest in your future. However, a few years later, your...
Read MoreNavigate the Financial Side of Divorce with the Help of a Divorce Consultant
The decision to end a marriage is not one that is made lightly. It is a difficult and emotional process that can take months or even years to reach. Some couples may try counseling or other interventions to save their marriage, while...
Read MoreHow Working with a Divorce Mediator Saves You Time & Money
Divorce can be a grueling process, even in the best of times, especially when deciding the fate of assets and children. Unfortunately, the traditional litigation process can exacerbate these challenges, heighten the conflict, and...
Read MoreHow To Move on After Divorce
In many ways, the end of a marriage can be one of the most difficult and stressful times in a person's life. It's more than the end of a promised lifelong partnership; a divorce signifies the loss of friendships, a home, and shared...
Read MoreHow To Find Hidden Assets in a Divorce?
Deciding to divorce can be painful in the best of circumstances. However, suspicions of financial fraud cause more emotional pain and potentially derail the entire process. Let's explore how hidden assets can affect the divorce process.
Read MoreWho Gets the House in a Divorce?
One of the most common sticking points in a divorce is the house. It's the quintessential marital asset: worth a lot of money and holds a lot of sentimental value. Let's take a closer look at the financial factors at play.
Read MoreWhat's a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), and how do they supplement the divorce process?
Just as attorneys are trained in the legal aspects of divorce, CDFAs are experts in financial analysis they specifically deal with the long-term implications of a divorce and establish a post-divorce financial plan for clients.
Read MoreSocial Media and Divorce
Since the pandemic began, social media has enabled us to stay in contact with each other. It has been a blessing for many of us but oversharing on the platform may cause issues in your divorce. Your social media accounts can be an...
Read MoreHow to Bring Positivity into Your Life During Divorce
Life ends up taking us on a rollercoaster ride and can catch us by surprise. We can find ourselves in positions that we never expected nor would choose for ourselves. While situation may not be one that we selected, we can choose how...
Read MoreIts Okay to Be Joyful During Divorce: Here’s How To Do It
Divorce is a harrowing time but it is also a time of rebirth. One vision has come to an end, but another is taking shape! There is enough to worry about and stress over but finding ways to celebrate your new life, while...
Read MoreEmpower Your Post-Divorce Self Finances
Money is an imaginary object that can be the root of our dreams and desires but also our fears. By taking control of your money, you will empower yourself and replace fear with facts. Follow our tips here.
Read MoreWin-Win Divorce Outcomes are Built On Strong Strategies
The type of negotiating tactic that is used in your divorce will influence the outcome. By understanding how tactics are used, you will be able to select the right method for your family. The two main strategies that are used in...
Read MoreHow to Create a Settlement that Fits Your Family
Are you interested in keeping archaic case law out of your divorce? Many people do not realize that you do NOT have to use the courtroom for divorce resolution. Learn more here.
Read MoreCollab: Working Together to Achieve Your Divorce Goals
The Collaborative Divorce Team Collaborative divorce is focused on creating win-win outcomes achieved through mutual consensus. Couples who elect the collaborative method value maintaining control of the decision-making process. Each...
Read MoreMediation and Collaboration: Keeping Family First
We all know of people who have experienced horrible divorces that have cost a ton of money, but also impacted their mental well-being. When I was going through my own separation, I was determined to not to let our uncoupling turn...
Read MoreThe Four Divorces: The Legal Aspect
Depending on where you live, the legal process for divorce is different. It can vary from county to county. But there are some basics that are not geographically dependent. Learn more here.
Read MoreThe Four Divorces: The Financial Aspect
Managing finances can be challenging even in the best of times. Throw in separation and it can be downright scary. Keep reading here to learn how to replace fear with facts.
Read MoreThe Four Divorces: The Social Aspect
When you make the decision to uncouple, it not only affects you, your partner, and the children but everyone whose lives will be changed by the separation. Keep reading to learn more.
Read MoreThe Four Divorces: The Emotional Aspect
Regardless of the final straw and who made the tough decision to uncouple, the end of the relationship results in many uncomfortable emotions. The emotional adjustment to the new reality can be the hardest part of the process.
Read MoreWant to Preserve Your Relationship Through Divorce?
When people think about the divorce process, the first thing that comes to mind is a courtroom screaming match. Divorce does not have to be this way! The Collaborative Process is an alternative divorce method. Learn more here.
Read MoreProperty Division: Career Assets and Employee Benefits
Many employers offer additional compensation packages and incentives to their employees. Benefits include banked vacation and sick days, quarterly or year-end bonuses, expense accounts, club memberships, stock options, and unique tools...
Read MoreProperty Division: Retirement Assets
Not all assets are created equal! When going through divorce, it is incredibly important to understand how each asset's unique features impact the divorce settlement. Lets begin by understanding retirement asset basics. There are three...
Read MoreGetting Started: Finding Your Post-Divorce Income
As you prepare for divorce, it is essential to calculate the numbers of your life. Increasing your financial intelligence will dramatically drop anxiety levels and help you keep focused on your divorce goals. The next step in the...
Read MoreGetting Started: Listing Liabilities
When you are negotiating a settlement, preparation is the key to success. After all, how will you know what to divide if you do not know what there is. During the course of your marriage, you accumulated assets and liabilities; now it...
Read MoreGetting Started: Achieve Your Divorce Goals With a Budget
Divorce is the biggest financial event of most people’s lives. The same amount of money that supported one household will now have to support two. Understanding your expenses and making a budget is an essential step in the...
Read MoreGetting Started: Asset Inventory
When thinking about divorce, most people are overwhelmed by the fear of the unknown. So many different parts of life are changing. Two incomes at a single address will now be spread over two locations. To replace your fear with facts,...
Read MoreGetting Started: Determining Your Priorities
Divorce feels like a giant cage match and you are the little guy in the ring. Topics that should be easily resolved cause explosive reactions that disrupt our very being. With the emotions flying high, it can be easy to get lost....
Read More4 Tools for an Informed Divorce
During this time of extreme change, informed decisions are critical. With their personal data and divorce analysis at their fingertips, Divorce Analytics clients make better decisions which leads to better outcomes. To ensure our...
Read More5 Ways the Coronavirus Can Infect Your Divorce And Simple Steps to Protect Yourself
It seems the ripple effect of coronavirus has infected everything, and divorcing individuals are not immune. The most apparent impact is that most, if not all, courthouses are closed except for emergencies. This may delay your divorce,...
Read MoreGetting Started: Set Your Divorce Up For Success With These Questions
As you begin to uncouple from your partner, set yourself up for success by answering these questions to determine your priorities. Who will stay in the home? Who will pay the mortgage and other regular expenses while your apart? How will...
Read MoreDivorce – A New Financial Beginning
I am sitting across the desk from my recently divorced client, who seems a lot lighter today. At our first meeting last year, her marriage had just broken down. And on that day she expressed raw emotion and pain, coupled with...
Read MoreSurvey Reveals Leading Causes of Divorce
According to a recent survey of 191 CDFA® professionals from across North America, the three leading causes of divorce are "basic incompatibility" (43%), "infidelity" (28%), and "money issues" (22%). "Emotional and/or physical...
Read MoreImprove Your Communication with Your Divorce Attorney
One of the many things that makes divorce such a complicated and notoriously confusing business is the array of new terms, acronyms, and phrases tossed around throughout the process. Divorce has its own...
Read MoreBooks to Read with Your Child About Separation and Divorce
Books can help children identify and deal with the loss, anger, fear, and uncertainty that they may be experiencing and can help them understand the situation on their own level. Books can also help parents speak the words and emotions...
Read MoreUnderstanding Spousal Support
In North America, it’s the judge’s place to decide how the marital assets should be divided. By closely examining the income and assets of each spouse, the judge can determine if spousal support should be paid—and by...
Read MoreSpotting Credit Trouble
American households with credit card balances carry an average debt of $8,602.1 The wise use of credit is a critical skill in today’s world. Used unwisely, credit can rapidly turn from a useful tool to a crippling burden. There...
Read MoreThe Top 10 Mistakes in Divorce
CDFA® professionals from across the USA share some of the worst financial mistakes they’ve seen in their practices. 1. Terminating Spousal Support when a Child Reaches the Age of Majority With the assistance of their lawyers,...
Read MoreImportant Things to Consider Prior To Announcing Your Divorce to your Spouse
Divorce is a very emotional and costly process. It can cause dramatic changes in lifestyle, destroy relationships, and leave a family emotionally devastated. Take enough time to carefully consider all aspects before you make a...
Read MoreFrom the Judge's Bench
A family court judge talks about effective preparation for court—and how to achieve results in court by utilizing all available resources. Back in law school, my trial-practice professor lectured to us to always assume the judge...
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